Who has the time? Not us Fortyhourdayjobbers who enjoy making things. This time of year beckons the crafty and creative side in all of us crafty girls to come out. During my lunch break I'm completely enveloped in the blissful worlds of Purl Bee, Angry Chicken, Wee Wonderfuls and Posie Gets Cozie...etc. It's so inspiring, it's just so .... lunch over and I return to work bothered and frustrated because I have four more hours with a computer in a cubicle and meanwhile THEY are all doing their own creative thing and my ideas are stuck, simmering in my head.
It's depressing really, but like a moth to a flame I check out the craft blogs every lunch break. I have ideas, I have loads of ideas, I have loads of creative prowess and I have loads of supplies and now I even a place to work on it all* but what I lack is time. TIME! Don't get me wrong, I am very happy with and thankful for this job. Especially with the state of things in today's socio-economic climate. However, I love to make things and the day job clashes with this...completely. There was a time when I was cool with just having a few hours after work and on the weekends to create and bake and live in domestic bliss but I was unaware of the goings on in other homes all across the country. When blogs took off and the hip, artistic crafty women of the world all began to post their sharp, well lit photos of their intricate, cute lil projects...that's when I realized I was 100% Fortyhourdayjobber with not time to meet my artistic and crafty goals...EVER!
Who are these people? They all seem to have three or more children. Do the kids* ever go to school? They'll post photos of a perfect lil pastry they made this morning with a tiny kid hand reaching for it. They'll showcase the quilt made from hundreds of tiny blocks, each embroidered and inspired by a photo of each of their children at play...then there are the soups. I love the photos of the hearty soups that have a billion ingredients (always from the farmer's market) all choppy-chopped into teeny tiny perfect pieces and plopped in some delicious order and then photographed in a vintage tureen or some cool hip bowl that leads me to a site that sells tons of cute, cool hip bowls and collectible, pricey vintage tureens ......STOP!
Fortyhourdayjobbers, if you have anytime in your busy schedule, take back the blog. I would like to read how someone comes home, after putting in eight hours, and hits the project. I want to see photos of the project placed on a regular , un hip table or set before the backdrop of a house that is less than tidy on a Wednesday evening. I want to hear how NOT well fed everyone in the household is and how everyone suffers while things are being made and photographed and uploaded and written about. I want some doggy noses or kitty paws reaching for the homemade object d'arte.
I have to fit my crafting into a few hours after work and 48 short hours at the end of the week. Umm, I need to balance it with the other things that need to be done weekly. I need to keep my house tidy, hubby time, gym time, hang out with friends, grocery shop, run some errands, there is reading time, movie watching time, cooking and in between all this I try and fit a nice four hours of crochet, sewing or card making. Yes I'm jealous, because in eight hours I could master the art of the fruit tart (I oculd be just as good as any of those turquoise and red, flowered, hip,vintage apron wearing women. I could shop for vintage barkcloth to make a fabulous lil cafe curtain. I could make a cute book with book making supplies I just happen to have lying around and make ten more to post as giveaways to the first ten Fortyhourdayjobbers who praise my work and ability to do so much. I could design my own fabric and send it to Spoonflower, get it back and make a great Anthropolgie worthy skirt, pose in it (just me and the self timer) until I got the perfect picture and then post it on my blog. I would set the table for lunch in such a cutely original way, Colin Cowie's eye would bleed. I could crochet a wonderful, colorful, intricate tablecloth out of the tiniest gauged thread. I just need some time. That's all it takes, time. I would bake and sew and cook and design up a storm, if I didn't have this day job.
This Christmas if you receive anything handmade from anyone with a real day job, you are loved. They are showing you their most sincere and warmest love. They have spent all their free time after work to give you a cute, special, practical item. They were up until the wee hours of the morning before finding the perfect stopping point and hit snooze in the morning until it was too late. They may have passed on the last four chapters of that book they were into or ate weenies for lunch and dinner that day because they would rather finish your gift than do anything else like make a decent lunch or go grocery shopping, things they should have done. That is a gift.
This is a jealous rant, if you have a craft blog, don't get all pissy. I adore your blog, I love it to lil Fiskar, flower shaped, hole punched pieces and I'll continue to be tortured/inspired by them. They serve to remind me that I'm a person who likes making things and making things is as important as a gym membership, six month dental visits and vitamins. It's good for me, keeps me healthy. It is necessary to create in my spare time and it's something that should be done as often as possible lest I become ill. Seriously, there are four years in my past where I didn't make a single thing and I was so unhappy and always had a cold. I thought making anything was just a waste of time. It never is. What was I thinking? Haven't had a cold or flu since 1994.
So Fortyhourdayjobbers, make use of the time you have and complete all those projects. Somehow. EEK! Don't let those craft blogs get you down. Use them to power up. You are just as good as they are, and given the free time, you'd have a craft blog I'd envy in a minute. IN A MINUTE! So go on, exercise your creative muscle and know that it's something you must do and make time for. Enjoy those craft blogs during your break and when you feel like screaming because it's been four days since you have made yourself a decent meal and the scarf you are making is just mucking up, I am here for you, in Beatsville, I understand.
Remember: baby steps, keep all timekeeping tools out of sight and these craft blogs are carefully written. No one could possibly live the lives portrayed in those crafty posts. Right?
* Said place is still needing to be unpacked and organized at the moment because I just got it. The plan is: I'll be there every chance I can. Should help with the creative process.
*Always photographed very happy at play against cute Eames furniture or among the idyllic setting of colorful,newly fallen leaves in a forest or a perfect, green moss groundcover or against a very bountiful garden...or in a smocked and embroidered dress their crafty mom sewed for them with a handmade doll in matching frock.
* Kathy Cano-Murillo is an uber busy, crafty chica who doesn't hide it. Reading her blog, doesn't matter who you are, you got nothing on your plate compared to her. Labels: minutiae